My name is Pam Perez
Please call our office at 909-255-1250 to make a first-time appointment.

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Do you ever find yourself asking, "How did I get here?" or "Why has my life take the direction it has?"

Perhaps you experienced some kind of trauma in your past – childhood abuse, a relationship trauma, or those received on the battlefield – and you are wondering why the things that happened then continue to affect and impact your life now. I am here to tell you that healing is possible. There is hope!

Maybe you’ve been thinking about talking to someone for a while now. All too often, the crisis point comes when we least expect it - the internal turmoil we work so hard to keep hidden inside refuses to stay there any longer. Like a rubber ball we try to push down under the water, it eventually slips out of our hands and pops to the surface. Sometimes, we just need someone to help us process everything and make sense of it all.

Or, you could be struggling in your marriage. The truth is that we all struggle at times, the difference now is that you are finally ready to let someone help you. It no longer makes sense to keep doing what has never worked and expect a different result. It would be my honor to help you with some real solutions. I have been married over 40 years myself, and while marriage is not always easy, marriage is always worth the journey.

The first step is trusting someone with your story, and allowing that person to come alongside you on your journey.

While you may have been feeling that you simply have nowhere to turn when it comes to trying to process your emotions or find a way out, I am here to assure you that you do not have to walk through the difficult places on life’s journey alone. I have spent over 20 years working with survivors of trauma, abuse, PTSD, and a variety of other challenges that so many of us face along the way.
As someone who studies the ways in which our brains work, I am fascinated by our miraculous brains and brain/behavior relationships and have spent many years studying in this area and training others also.

As an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist I am uniquely able to help you, wherever you are in life. My favorite part about doing this work is helping people just like you to see that there is hope, no matter what the issue or how deep the pain you are facing. I am committed to providing you with the tools you need to live the life you want, to no longer live in bondage to past hurts or present fears, and to use these experiences as building blocks for a bright future.

You are not alone on your journey!

Please contact our office to set up a free 20-minute phone consultation prior to making your first appointment. I look forward to speaking with you soon. Contact me here.


Click here to find out what it means to be an Associate Marriage and Family Therapist.

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P.S. Please take some time to browse the rest of this website while you're here. You will find information about myself and the services I offer as well as our other counselors and their specialties. You will also find some great book recommendations and other resources too.

My Contact Info

You can reach Pam by calling her at:
(909) 725-7317. If she cannot answer her phone, please leave a message about the nature of your call and she will usually get back to you within 24 hours.
Pam's appointment schedule can be found
here. Once you have talked to our office staff and securely registered with our online appointment system, you can make and cancel your own appointments on her schedule.
Pam can be reached via email by clicking on this link: Email Pam. If her email link does not work for you, please use our Contact Form here. Feel free to ask questions and leave some info regarding how you prefer to be contacted.

Ph.D. Experimental Psychology – Neuroscience Emphasis – Loma Linda University
M.S. Counseling Psychology – Marriage and Family Therapy – California Baptist University
M.A. Experimental Psychology – Neuroscience Emphasis – Loma Linda University
B.A. Psychology – California Baptist University

Special Skills and Qualifications
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder and Its Neural Correlates
SYMBIS Pre-Marital Certified Facilitator
Traumatic Brain Injury
BCIA Neurofeedback Certificate – Widener University

Seminars & Conference Presentations
Navigating Relationships
Asking God the Hard Questions
Reaching Spiritual and Emotional Wholeness
Understanding Depression from a Neuropsychological Perspective
Understanding the Severe Abuse Survivor and How to Develop a Treatment Plan

Professional Affiliations
California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists
Psychology Today, Verified AMFT

My Forms

Having these forms completed before your first counseling session will allow us to "get to work" sooner. If you have any questions, please don't hesitate to contact me.

If you are a new client, please complete the following forms and bring them to your first therapy session.
Each counseling participant will need to fill out a separate Intake Form and sign a separate Limits of Confidentiality Policy.

Client Counseling Intake Form

Intake Form for Children

Limits of Confidentiality/Therapy Cancellation Policy
Neurofeedback Assessment Form
If you are going to be participating in therapy as a couple or a family, please have all participants read and sign No Secrets Policy.

No Secrets Policy Form
If you would like me to coordinate care with another provider (for example, your psychiatrist, primary care physician, etc.), complete Authorization to Disclose Information form to release your psychotherapy information.

Authorization to Disclose Information Form

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